Dec 18, 2012
Nov 7, 2012
Let's try to be less judgemental
I know lots of us suffering from judgemental perspective of people around us..but most importantly that we do not become one.
But the real question is how?
It seems to me, we get more judgemental as we get older. First , we need keep in mind that we or human mind will subconsciously be judgemental toward something..it is in our nature.
Whether we believe it or not, from birth we have an instinct for hypocrisy and judgementalism ..but don't let it control you. At the point that you realise you're being judgemental, STOP! Think again and remind your self any of these before you start to talk:
1) Never think that you're better person than someone
2) Try place your self in her/his shoes
3) Try to be less critical
4) Look at your self before you talk
5) Always accept people the way they are
6) Stop your desire of wanting to be right, to prove others wrong.
7) Keep in mind that everybody have their own opinion
8) Stop forcing your ideal into other people
9) Stop sticking your nose into everyhing that is not effecting your life.
10) Avoid/ Stop Gossiping
11) If you have nothing better to talk..don't talk at all.
12) Think 5 positive, uplifting, affirming things of that person/situation.
[As stated by Chinese Zen Master Sent-ts'an]
Judgmentalism is indeed a disease of the mind: it leads to anger, torment, and conflict. But it is also the mind’s normal condition — the [subconscious] is always evaluating, always saying “Like it” or “Don’t like it.” So … you can’t simply resolve to to stop judging others or stop being a hypocrite. But, as Buddha taught, [you] can gradually learn to tame the subconscious…
Bah, chow dulu..BTW, Thanx 4 Reading :P
Oct 24, 2012
Sabahan "Slang / Accent" (Updated)
Dear Sabahan, mari kita kasi refresh memory..mungkin ada perkataan yg kamu suda lupa/jarang guna kan..Let's preserve our unique Sabahan slang.Hehe.(FYI : Not entirely mine)
1. Tuuuna/ Saaaana - Points with the lips - (there-- at a distance)
2. Limpas - To pass/walk by - Maaf, saya..limpas dulu? Excuse me, can I passby?
3. Palui - Stupid, duh!
2. Limpas - To pass/walk by - Maaf, saya..limpas dulu? Excuse me, can I passby?
3. Palui - Stupid, duh!
4. Tapuk - Sorok/to hide
5. Bida - Tidak lawa/ugly
6. Bubut - As in proper malay- "kejar", to chase
7. Sakai - Ignorant, uncivilized, "hoosier"- (jakun)
8. Andang-andang - That's how it is
9. Sapak - Kasi campur/gaul -- utk masakan-to mix as in cooking
10. Inda/tia - Short form of "tidak" - not, no)
11. Wicin - Another brand of msg as in "aji-no- moto" - a seasoning or food enhancer
12. Talampau - Proper malay - "terlampau"- too much
13. Takajut - proper malay - "terkejut" - shocked, startled
14. Siorang - proper malay -"kami"/ "saya-orang" - us, we
15. Ngam-ngam - proper malay "kebetulan" - exact, at that time
16. Mangkali - proper malay "barangkali" - maybe, perhaps
17. Kamarin/ Kemarin - proper malay "kelmarin" - yesterday/ semalam (peninsular)
18. Kanapa - proper malay "kenapa" - why
19. Gia - expression - "is it?"
20. Bah - expression - "ok!"
21. Ah? - question, "Apa?" What?
22. Kici/kicil - proper malay "kecil" - small
23. Basar - proper malay "besar" - big, huge
24. Siok/siuk - expression/description, proper malay "seronok/syok" - enjoyable, great, etc-
25. Urang - "orang" - people; sometimes used "diurang" - them, they
26. Karing - "kering" - dry
27. Umban - "humban, lempar" - throw
28. Kana - "kena"- got ie--"kena umban" --got thrown
29. padih - "pedih" - as in "Mata saya padih/pedih!" - My eyes stings, painful
30. Numbur - "nombor" - number
31. Gali - "geli" as in squeemish about something, or "gali"--gali lubang - as Dig a hole.
32. Dorang - "dia orang/diurang" - them, they - Dorang pigi tamu. They went to the market.)
33. Panat - "penat" - tired)
34. Katawa -"ketawa" - laugh, laughing
35. Lanjang (a.k.a. "periuk /belanga " - pots/pans)
36. Putung ("potong" - cut, slice)
37. Buduh ("bodoh" - stupid)
38. Tongo/bongo ("stupido" - same as above )
39. Kabaru-baruan ("kebaru-baruan"- new to something)
40. Giuk (proper malay "ulat"- worm)
41. Sikui (Tembikai - watermelon)
42. Santut (Underwear)
43. Celana/salana (Seluar)
44. Gipit (to grip...)
45. Kanapatan/kadapatan (caught red handed.. or as the malays in kl say..'kantoi')
46. Kebangkalan (choked while eating.. proper malay = 'tersedak')
47. Ketulahan (bad karma)
48. Bahai (plastic bag)
49. Uinnaaa! / Uinah (used to express various feelings, mostly when surprised..)
50. Ging (derived from the word gang.. means kawan/member)
51. Tontolou = Mr. Willie
52. Pantat = Butt<---tp di semenanjung,lain tuh kan ? eee... ya ba pula.. Di sabah .. belakang .. tapi di semenanjung di Depan pulak .. silap .. LOL
53. Cula = Coke or Coca-cola...lol
54 Torrrrrbaik = The Best...lol
55. Bikin / Kin panas = feeling angry...- Hot kununlah..
56. Tembirang = Don't lie.. (eg. Jangan kau tembirang)
57. Sabak ---- means baru ko tau... in english = I TOLD U...
58. Kotoh ---- Means as same like Sabak...padan muka- serves you right.
59. Lakas = Lekas/Cepat (Faster)
60. Bobot/ Tonton = women's private / Vagina
61. Balabak = Scrotum
62. Kalatiak = Ketiak (Armpit)
63. Duiiii dogo! = My goodness!! / Oh my!! / OMG!
64. Seluar Katak - underwear
65. Siring siring - side / on the side
66. Taapun / sia-sia pun - a phrase used when unable to get the things desired
67. Palis palis - touch wood
68. Tachut - our version of touch wood
69. Gostan - reverse
70. Gohed - forward
71. Ayuk - swinging movement of the arm in the marble game. can also mean to masturbate
72. Taiih - shit / feaces / or just a curse word
73. Kogutan - hangover
74. Sepuluh Tiga (10-3) - RM10 for three cans of beer (well in those days lah)
75. Muhau/mulau - crazy
76. Takana - hit (BM is terkena)
77. Tekuis - same like like takana
78. Kapayas / tapayas - papaya
79. Api api - kota kinabalu
80. (Sia) bilang - said
81. Skijap - soon / in a short while / later
82. Tinguk - (tengok) to look
83. Hari satu - monday
84. Hari dua - tuesday
84. Hari tiga - wednesday
85. Hari ampat - thursday
86. Hari lima - friday
87. Hari anam - saturday
88. SOT - crazy (like me)
89. Thai lingong - worse than buduh
90. Karan – electricity
91. Mangkali -maybe (BM - barangkali)
92. Astaga - expression of disbelieve
93. Atokoi - oh my goodness
94. Kurik - dig (BM - korek)
95. Buyuk - cheat 'mana aci.. ko main buyuk'
96. Esbok - ice box ie fridge
97. Adidih -oh my goodness
98. Apai tu - apa itu
99. Tiapa -tidak apa
100. Sigu - teacher (BM - cikgu)
101. Pengerasi – stubborn / degil,keras kepala
5. Bida - Tidak lawa/ugly
6. Bubut - As in proper malay- "kejar", to chase
7. Sakai - Ignorant, uncivilized, "hoosier"- (jakun)
8. Andang-andang - That's how it is
9. Sapak - Kasi campur/gaul -- utk masakan-to mix as in cooking
10. Inda/tia - Short form of "tidak" - not, no)
11. Wicin - Another brand of msg as in "aji-no- moto" - a seasoning or food enhancer
12. Talampau - Proper malay - "terlampau"- too much
13. Takajut - proper malay - "terkejut" - shocked, startled
14. Siorang - proper malay -"kami"/ "saya-orang" - us, we
15. Ngam-ngam - proper malay "kebetulan" - exact, at that time
16. Mangkali - proper malay "barangkali" - maybe, perhaps
17. Kamarin/ Kemarin - proper malay "kelmarin" - yesterday/ semalam (peninsular)
18. Kanapa - proper malay "kenapa" - why
19. Gia - expression - "is it?"
20. Bah - expression - "ok!"
21. Ah? - question, "Apa?" What?
22. Kici/kicil - proper malay "kecil" - small
23. Basar - proper malay "besar" - big, huge
24. Siok/siuk - expression/description, proper malay "seronok/syok" - enjoyable, great, etc-
25. Urang - "orang" - people; sometimes used "diurang" - them, they
26. Karing - "kering" - dry
27. Umban - "humban, lempar" - throw
28. Kana - "kena"- got ie--"kena umban" --got thrown
29. padih - "pedih" - as in "Mata saya padih/pedih!" - My eyes stings, painful
30. Numbur - "nombor" - number
31. Gali - "geli" as in squeemish about something, or "gali"--gali lubang - as Dig a hole.
32. Dorang - "dia orang/diurang" - them, they - Dorang pigi tamu. They went to the market.)
33. Panat - "penat" - tired)
34. Katawa -"ketawa" - laugh, laughing
35. Lanjang (a.k.a. "periuk /belanga " - pots/pans)
36. Putung ("potong" - cut, slice)
37. Buduh ("bodoh" - stupid)
38. Tongo/bongo ("stupido" - same as above )
39. Kabaru-baruan ("kebaru-baruan"- new to something)
40. Giuk (proper malay "ulat"- worm)
41. Sikui (Tembikai - watermelon)
42. Santut (Underwear)
43. Celana/salana (Seluar)
44. Gipit (to grip...)
45. Kanapatan/kadapatan (caught red handed.. or as the malays in kl say..'kantoi')
46. Kebangkalan (choked while eating.. proper malay = 'tersedak')
47. Ketulahan (bad karma)
48. Bahai (plastic bag)
49. Uinnaaa! / Uinah (used to express various feelings, mostly when surprised..)
50. Ging (derived from the word gang.. means kawan/member)
51. Tontolou = Mr. Willie
52. Pantat = Butt<---tp di semenanjung,lain tuh kan ? eee... ya ba pula.. Di sabah .. belakang .. tapi di semenanjung di Depan pulak .. silap .. LOL
53. Cula = Coke or Coca-cola...lol
54 Torrrrrbaik = The Best...lol
55. Bikin / Kin panas = feeling angry...- Hot kununlah..
56. Tembirang = Don't lie.. (eg. Jangan kau tembirang)
57. Sabak ---- means baru ko tau... in english = I TOLD U...
58. Kotoh ---- Means as same like Sabak...padan muka- serves you right.
59. Lakas = Lekas/Cepat (Faster)
60. Bobot/ Tonton = women's private / Vagina
61. Balabak = Scrotum
62. Kalatiak = Ketiak (Armpit)
63. Duiiii dogo! = My goodness!! / Oh my!! / OMG!
64. Seluar Katak - underwear
65. Siring siring - side / on the side
66. Taapun / sia-sia pun - a phrase used when unable to get the things desired
67. Palis palis - touch wood
68. Tachut - our version of touch wood
69. Gostan - reverse
70. Gohed - forward
71. Ayuk - swinging movement of the arm in the marble game. can also mean to masturbate
72. Taiih - shit / feaces / or just a curse word
73. Kogutan - hangover
74. Sepuluh Tiga (10-3) - RM10 for three cans of beer (well in those days lah)
75. Muhau/mulau - crazy
76. Takana - hit (BM is terkena)
77. Tekuis - same like like takana
78. Kapayas / tapayas - papaya
79. Api api - kota kinabalu
80. (Sia) bilang - said
81. Skijap - soon / in a short while / later
82. Tinguk - (tengok) to look
83. Hari satu - monday
84. Hari dua - tuesday
84. Hari tiga - wednesday
85. Hari ampat - thursday
86. Hari lima - friday
87. Hari anam - saturday
88. SOT - crazy (like me)
89. Thai lingong - worse than buduh
90. Karan – electricity
91. Mangkali -maybe (BM - barangkali)
92. Astaga - expression of disbelieve
93. Atokoi - oh my goodness
94. Kurik - dig (BM - korek)
95. Buyuk - cheat 'mana aci.. ko main buyuk'
96. Esbok - ice box ie fridge
97. Adidih -oh my goodness
98. Apai tu - apa itu
99. Tiapa -tidak apa
100. Sigu - teacher (BM - cikgu)
101. Pengerasi – stubborn / degil,keras kepala
102. Masol – muscle / berotot
103. Tagar - karat
104. Ikan koruk/karuk – ikan puyu
104. Ikan koruk/karuk – ikan puyu
105. Piara – bela / pelihara
106. Tebilak – terbeliak/terkangkang
107. Cubuk – peeping/skodeng
108. Culas – tipu (masa bermain)
109. Gerigitan – geram (secara lembut)
110. Campin – sgt hebat/pandai dalam sesuatu perkara
111. Sikut – sangkut / gantung/ gantung di bahagian badan (kebiasaan utk barang eg.beg)
112. Sut – pukul (shoot)
113. Akun – mengaku / mengaku kalah (utk teka teki)
114. Sampalau - selekeh
115. Botingal - lembab / bodoh
116. Lidut - lambat/lembab
117. Duiii..- "yelah tu.."/ expression to mocking someone
118. Pegal/ kuyak - awkward feeling (east coast slang)
119. Bulih bah kalau kau - okey jer/sure,i can (anything for you)
120. Tabarus / Tebarus –Pelahap, Kuat makan
121. Bangas – Basi, Expired
122. Kapsit – Tidak adil, tipu
123. Limpang – baring, tidur sebentar
124. Derang – another short form of ‘diorang’ / dia orang
125. Debilang – another short form of ‘dia bilang’
126. Taris-taris - Stripe / Jalur
127. Pihit - Himpit
128. Pedis - same as pedih
129. Tajau - Bekas ceramik / tempayan
130. Sanggam - Jaring penapis tos
131. Saban - papan pemotong (kitchenware)
132. Jepit - proper malay "sepit"
133. Ngi Ngis - Terrible scratch/damaged
134. Kepayas - papaya/betik
135. Sikui/cikui - Watermelon/ tembikai
136. Sisir - sikat (hair comb/brush)
137. Sigup - rokok / cigarette
138. Payau - rusa, kijang
139. Susu kacang - soybean / soya bean
140. Cuik - piring kecil
141. Inda/nda tentu2 - yang bukan-bukan
142. Cawir - Cair
143. Usai - Urus
144. Tampui - potty / tempat kencing budak
145. Cabuk - lame / kolot
146. Berjurut - berturut2/selari/sekata/berada dalam satu barisan
147. Jara/ Jera - Serik
148. Babal - Degil/stubborn-As in proper malay; Bebal
149. Anu - expression ~ searching for words (malay -apa nama...)
150. Bitin
151. Sembarangan
152. Radu
153. Pugai - black magic to make boy/girl likes you
154. Sandi - Teruk / over / sadis
155. Uncit - Last place in something
156. Bloksot / pluksut - terjadi secara kebetulan
157. Santiki/ Sintiki
158. Kuruyuk
159. Uiseh - To express something like "bukan main lagi ko ah"
160. Ampus - Lelah/Athsma
161. Hambat - Hentam
162. Ampas - Hempas
163. Gintak - Bantai / rape
164. Babau - bisu
165.Talingong
166. Langgok
167. Lago-lago
168. Susu/ninin - Breast
169. Miring - Lopsided
170. Celedak - ngada-ngada (bugis slang)
171. Bigak
172. Sinduk - sudu (east coast slang)
173. Gendut
174. Basung/Basong - ikan selayang/sardin
175. Anak Kemanakan - Anak buah
176. Tumtum - minum air yang straight dari botol tanpa meletak dalam cawan
177. Tungap/menungap - air diminum straight dari botol tanpa meletak dalam cawan
178. Tuli - Pekak
179. Tumpis - Mulut murai/tempayan
180. Patak / Patak-patak - Kongsi
181. Tapau - Bungkus
182. Paluki / luki / lokek - Kedekut
183. Karit / Skarit - Kedekut
184. Kompek/Kumpik - Plastic bag (Bugis/ Indon slang) ~commonly used term in Tawau.
185. Kapus-Kapus - temegah-mengah
186. Sesar / Sasar - gerak / move
187. Tampiling - Tampar
188. Mengintu - Meminta-minta tanpa perasaan malu
189. Kus semangat -
190. Mansau - Jalan
191. Sapi - Lembu
192. Tambadau - Seladang
193. Badukang / Otek - Ikan Mayong
194. Sembarang - Sebarangan/suka ati
195. Seja/jak - sahaja/saja
196. Lamari / Lemari - Almari
197.Tapuji / Mintak puji - Ngada-ngada
198. Karau - Kanak2 menangis
199. Tebelorot - Terlondeh
200. Terpeleset - slippery
201. Babat - Gemuk
202. Kamar Mandi - Toilet/tandas
203. Tanggal - Tarikh / Hari Bulan
204. Singkam - cekak rambut
205. Bahambur / Berhambur - Berterabur
206. Palahu/Pala'u - Sea gypsy
207. Terang bulan - apam balik
208. Manggatil/ Menggatil -
209. Meniayak/ Men-nyayak -
210. Mengusut -
211. Pukiayam - Cursing word
212. Kimbet - Sial/Cursing word (soft version)
213. Silakak - Damn it!
214. Paduli! - I don't care
215. Tatap! - always / sudah pasti
216. Pindik-pindik tagap - Short and muscular
217. Sogit - Penyejuk,Compensation, Denda (Mengikut adat)
218. Ampai-ampai -clearly laid thereabout, terletak degan nyata sekali
219. Kaling - Indian / Keling
220. Sakai - ignorant, uncivilized, "hoosier", tidak bertamddun
221. Bebuyah - Berbuih
222. Mengayas -
223. Berusai - bersiap/berkemas
224. Karau - budak menangis - cry baby
225. Kamar Mandi - Toilet/Tandas
226. Inda/Tidak tentu-tentu -
227. Kuntau -
228. Matai -
229. Angkol / Anty - uncle/aunty
230. Mamak - mother/mum
231. Anu
232. Ampit - sempat/dapat/diberi sebahagian
233. Tambling - somersault
234. Ruti/Roti Paun
235. Murtabak - roti canai
236. Smat - Segak, Baik, Bagus
237. Kumpau - Tambirang/ Sombong
238. Kilik - Gila,Sewel (same as 'sot')
239. Lanjik -
240. Gete'/ Getek -
241. Ya ampun - OMG
242. Cewek - awek, teman wanita
243. Toples - tupperware
244. Ampus - semput, lelah, asma
245. Alaka - benggali. pakistan (insult)
246. Otok - same as 'pilak'
247. Boliau/ Beliau - Bapa
247. Beliau perempuan - Ibu
248. Garit - Calar
249. Lugai-lugai - Tidak tentu arah
250. Sungkai - buka puasa
251. Tepos - Flat butt
252. Tamaha' - tamak
253. Haw-haw - Cannot be fully trusted/ count on
254. Asbak - Ashtray
255. Sanggak / Penyanggak -
256. Ancak - masturbate
257. Amput - F**k
258. Adidih - Word to express slight disapointment
259. Bemajal-majal -
260. Gulik / Bergulik - Guling/Golek
261. Lubir / Lobir - tidak fit/ketat/loose
262. CCM - Monthly Installment / Installment Loan
263. Aspal - Asphalt
264. Ayam Mati - Unreliable / no good/ a person@thing that cannot do any task without messing up.
265. Pra-pra - Singkatan bagi peranakan/kacukan tapi lebih pada peranakan arab
266. Perautan - Pencil Sharpener
267. Kepaingan - Kebiasaan
268. Lai - Sayang
269. Sasar - Ketepi sikit
270. Lemah - Tidak boleh diharap
271. Cium - Hidu
P/S: If you guys have some spare time tulung bah kasi translate untuk saya..malas suda ni mo translate..haha, Also, feel free to add perkataan kamu ingat for collection.(comment)130. Sanggam - Jaring penapis tos
131. Saban - papan pemotong (kitchenware)
132. Jepit - proper malay "sepit"
133. Ngi Ngis - Terrible scratch/damaged
134. Kepayas - papaya/betik
135. Sikui/cikui - Watermelon/ tembikai
136. Sisir - sikat (hair comb/brush)
137. Sigup - rokok / cigarette
138. Payau - rusa, kijang
139. Susu kacang - soybean / soya bean
140. Cuik - piring kecil
141. Inda/nda tentu2 - yang bukan-bukan
142. Cawir - Cair
143. Usai - Urus
144. Tampui - potty / tempat kencing budak
145. Cabuk - lame / kolot
146. Berjurut - berturut2/selari/sekata/berada dalam satu barisan
147. Jara/ Jera - Serik
148. Babal - Degil/stubborn-As in proper malay; Bebal
149. Anu - expression ~ searching for words (malay -apa nama...)
150. Bitin
151. Sembarangan
152. Radu
153. Pugai - black magic to make boy/girl likes you
154. Sandi - Teruk / over / sadis
155. Uncit - Last place in something
156. Bloksot / pluksut - terjadi secara kebetulan
157. Santiki/ Sintiki
158. Kuruyuk
159. Uiseh - To express something like "bukan main lagi ko ah"
160. Ampus - Lelah/Athsma
161. Hambat - Hentam
162. Ampas - Hempas
163. Gintak - Bantai / rape
164. Babau - bisu
165.Talingong
166. Langgok
167. Lago-lago
168. Susu/ninin - Breast
169. Miring - Lopsided
170. Celedak - ngada-ngada (bugis slang)
171. Bigak
172. Sinduk - sudu (east coast slang)
173. Gendut
174. Basung/Basong - ikan selayang/sardin
175. Anak Kemanakan - Anak buah
176. Tumtum - minum air yang straight dari botol tanpa meletak dalam cawan
177. Tungap/menungap - air diminum straight dari botol tanpa meletak dalam cawan
178. Tuli - Pekak
179. Tumpis - Mulut murai/tempayan
180. Patak / Patak-patak - Kongsi
181. Tapau - Bungkus
182. Paluki / luki / lokek - Kedekut
183. Karit / Skarit - Kedekut
184. Kompek/Kumpik - Plastic bag (Bugis/ Indon slang) ~commonly used term in Tawau.
185. Kapus-Kapus - temegah-mengah
186. Sesar / Sasar - gerak / move
187. Tampiling - Tampar
188. Mengintu - Meminta-minta tanpa perasaan malu
189. Kus semangat -
190. Mansau - Jalan
191. Sapi - Lembu
192. Tambadau - Seladang
193. Badukang / Otek - Ikan Mayong
194. Sembarang - Sebarangan/suka ati
195. Seja/jak - sahaja/saja
196. Lamari / Lemari - Almari
197.Tapuji / Mintak puji - Ngada-ngada
198. Karau - Kanak2 menangis
199. Tebelorot - Terlondeh
200. Terpeleset - slippery
201. Babat - Gemuk
202. Kamar Mandi - Toilet/tandas
203. Tanggal - Tarikh / Hari Bulan
204. Singkam - cekak rambut
205. Bahambur / Berhambur - Berterabur
206. Palahu/Pala'u - Sea gypsy
207. Terang bulan - apam balik
208. Manggatil/ Menggatil -
209. Meniayak/ Men-nyayak -
210. Mengusut -
211. Pukiayam - Cursing word
212. Kimbet - Sial/Cursing word (soft version)
213. Silakak - Damn it!
214. Paduli! - I don't care
215. Tatap! - always / sudah pasti
216. Pindik-pindik tagap - Short and muscular
217. Sogit - Penyejuk,Compensation, Denda (Mengikut adat)
218. Ampai-ampai -clearly laid thereabout, terletak degan nyata sekali
219. Kaling - Indian / Keling
220. Sakai - ignorant, uncivilized, "hoosier", tidak bertamddun
221. Bebuyah - Berbuih
222. Mengayas -
223. Berusai - bersiap/berkemas
224. Karau - budak menangis - cry baby
225. Kamar Mandi - Toilet/Tandas
226. Inda/Tidak tentu-tentu -
227. Kuntau -
228. Matai -
229. Angkol / Anty - uncle/aunty
230. Mamak - mother/mum
231. Anu
232. Ampit - sempat/dapat/diberi sebahagian
233. Tambling - somersault
234. Ruti/Roti Paun
235. Murtabak - roti canai
236. Smat - Segak, Baik, Bagus
237. Kumpau - Tambirang/ Sombong
238. Kilik - Gila,Sewel (same as 'sot')
239. Lanjik -
240. Gete'/ Getek -
241. Ya ampun - OMG
242. Cewek - awek, teman wanita
243. Toples - tupperware
244. Ampus - semput, lelah, asma
245. Alaka - benggali. pakistan (insult)
246. Otok - same as 'pilak'
247. Boliau/ Beliau - Bapa
247. Beliau perempuan - Ibu
248. Garit - Calar
249. Lugai-lugai - Tidak tentu arah
250. Sungkai - buka puasa
251. Tepos - Flat butt
252. Tamaha' - tamak
253. Haw-haw - Cannot be fully trusted/ count on
254. Asbak - Ashtray
255. Sanggak / Penyanggak -
256. Ancak - masturbate
257. Amput - F**k
258. Adidih - Word to express slight disapointment
259. Bemajal-majal -
260. Gulik / Bergulik - Guling/Golek
261. Lubir / Lobir - tidak fit/ketat/loose
262. CCM - Monthly Installment / Installment Loan
263. Aspal - Asphalt
264. Ayam Mati - Unreliable / no good/ a person@thing that cannot do any task without messing up.
265. Pra-pra - Singkatan bagi peranakan/kacukan tapi lebih pada peranakan arab
266. Perautan - Pencil Sharpener
267. Kepaingan - Kebiasaan
268. Lai - Sayang
269. Sasar - Ketepi sikit
270. Lemah - Tidak boleh diharap
271. Cium - Hidu
Oct 1, 2012
Famous People IQ
Hello there!
Did you ever wondering how smart you are? How much is your IQ score? Dunno huh? Me too..hahaha..teda apa2 bah ni..saja buat intro..
Nah, F.Y.I this is the list of some most famous people in the world and their IQ score.
Did you ever wondering how smart you are? How much is your IQ score? Dunno huh? Me too..hahaha..teda apa2 bah ni..saja buat intro..
Nah, F.Y.I this is the list of some most famous people in the world and their IQ score.
Name (First/Last)
| Description | Country |
IQ
(SB) |
| Abraham Lincoln | President | USA | 128 |
| Adolf Hitler | Nazi leader | Germany | 141 |
| Al Gore | Politician | USA | 134 |
| Albert Einstein | Physicist | USA | 160 |
| Albrecht von Haller | Medical scientist | Switzerland | 190 |
| Alexander Pope | Poet & writer | England | 180 |
| Sir Andrew J. Wiles | Mathematician | England | 170 |
| Andrew Jackson | President | USA | 123 |
| Andy Warhol | Pop artist | USA | 86 |
| Anthonis van Dyck | Painter | Dutch | 155 |
| Antoine Arnauld | Theologian | France | 190 |
| Arne Beurling | Mathematician | Sweden | 180 |
| Arnold Schwarzenegger | Actor/politician | Austrian | 135 |
| Baruch Spinoza | Philosopher | Holland | 175 |
| Benjamin Franklin | Writer, scientist & politician | USA | 160 |
| Benjamin Netanyahu | Israeli Prime Minister | Israel | 180 |
| Bill Gates | CEO, Microsoft | USA | 160 |
| Bill (William) Jefferson Clinton | President | USA | 137 |
| Blaise Pascal | Mathematician & religious philosopher | France | 195 |
| Bobby Fischer | Chess player | USA | 187 |
| Buonarroti Michelangelo | Artist, poet & architect | Italy | 180 |
| Carl von Linn | Botanist | Sweden | 165 |
| Charles Darwin | Naturalist | England | 165 |
| Charles Dickens | Writer | England | 180 |
| Christopher Michael Langan | Bouncer & scientist & philosopher | USA | 195 |
| Sir Clive Sinclair | Inventor | England | 159 |
| David Hume | Philosopher & politician | Scotland | 180 |
| Dr David Livingstone | Explorer & doctor | Scotland | 170 |
| Donald Byrne | Chess Player | Irland | 170 |
| Emanuel Swedenborg | thologian/scientist/philosopher | Sweden | 205 |
| Sir Francis Galton | Scientist & doctor | British | 200 |
| Friedrich Wilhelm Joseph von Schelling | Philosopher | Germany | 190 |
| Galileo Galilei | Physicist & astronomer & philosopher | Italy | 185 |
| Geena (Virginia) Elizabeth Davis | Actress | USA | 140 |
| Georg Friedrich Händel | Composer | Germany | 170 |
| George Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel | Philosopher | Germany | 165 |
| George Berkeley | Philosopher | Ireland | 190 |
| George H. Choueiri | A.C.E Leader | Lebanon | 195 |
| George Eliot (Mary Ann Evans) | Writer | England | 160 |
| George Sand (Amantinr Aurore Lucile Dupin) | Writer | France | 150 |
| George Walker Bush | President | USA | 125 |
| George Washington | President | USA | 118 |
| Gottfried Wilhelm von Leibniz | philospher / scientist / lawyer | Germany | 205 |
| Hans Dolph Lundgren | Actor | Sweden | 160 |
| Hans Christian Andersen | writer / poet | Denmark | 145 |
| Hillary Diane Rodham Clinton | US Politician | USA | 140 |
| Hjalmar Horace Greeley Schacht | President of the Reichsbank / Nazi Officer | Germany | 143 |
| Honoré de Balzac (Honore Balzac) | Writer / novelist | France | 155 |
| Hugo Grotius (Huig De Groot) | Jurist | Holland | 200 |
| Hypatia of Alexandria | Philosopher & mathematician | Alexandria | 170 |
| Immanuel Kant | Philosopher | Germany | 175 |
| Sir Isaac Newton | Scientist | England | 190 |
| Jakob Ludwig Felix Mendelssohn Bartholdy | Composer | Germany | 165 |
| James Cook | Explorer | England | 160 |
| James Watt | Physicist & technician | Scotland | 165 |
| James Howard Woods | Actor | USA | 180 |
| Jayne Mansfield | USA | 149 | |
| Jean Marie Auel | Writer | Finland/ America | 140 |
| Jodie Foster | Actor | USA | 132 |
| Johann Sebastian Bach | Composer | Germany | 165 |
| Johann Strauss | Composer | Germany | 170 |
| Johann Wolfgang von Goethe | Germany | 210 | |
| Johannes Kepler | Mathematician, physicist & astronomer | Germany | 175 |
| John Adams | President | USA | 137 |
| John F. Kennedy | Ex-President | USA | 117 |
| John H. Sununu | Chief of Staff for President Bush | USA | 180 |
| John Quincy Adams | President | USA | 153 |
| John Stuart Mill | Universal Genius | England | 200 |
| JohnLocke | Philosopher | England | 165 |
| Jola Sigmond | Teacher | Sweden | 161 |
| Jonathan Swift | Writer & theologian | England | 155 |
| Joseph Haydn | Composer | Austria | 160 |
| Joseph Louis Lagrange | Mathematician & astronomer | Italy/France | 185 |
| Judith Polgar | Chess player | Hungary | 170 |
| Kim Ung-Yong | Korea | 200 | |
| Kimovitch Garry Kasparov | Chess player | Russia | 190 |
| Leonardo da Vinci | Universal Genius | Italy | 220 |
| Lord Byron | Poet & writer | England | 180 |
| Louis Napoleon Bonaparte | Emperor | France | 145 |
| Ludwig van Beethoven | Composer | Germany | 165 |
| Ludwig Wittgenstein | Philosopher | Austria | 190 |
| Madame de Stael | Novelist & philosopher | France | 180 |
| Madonna | Singer | USA | 140 |
| Marilyn vos Savant | Writer | USA | 186 |
| Martin Luther | Theorist | Germany | 170 |
| Miguel de Cervantes | Writer | Spain | 155 |
| Nicolaus Copernicus | Astronomer | Poland | 160 |
| Nicole Kidman | Actor | USA | 132 |
| Paul Allen | Microsoft cofounder | USA | 160 |
| Philip Emeagwali | Mathematician | Nigeria | 190 |
| Phillipp Melanchthon | Humanist & theologian | Germany | 190 |
| PierreSimon de Laplace | Astronomer & mathematician | France | 190 |
| Plato | Philosopher | Greece | 170 |
| Ralph Waldo Emerson | Writer | USA | 155 |
| Raphael | Artist | Italy | 170 |
| Rembrandt van Rijn | Artist | Holland | 155 |
| Ren Descartes | Mathematician & philosopher | France | 185 |
| Richard Nixon | Ex-President | USA | 143 |
| Richard Wagner | Composer | Germany | 170 |
| Robert Byrne | Chess Player | Irland | 170 |
| Rousseau | Writer | France | 150 |
| Sarpi | Councilor & theologian & historian | Italy | 195 |
| Shakira | Singer | Colombia | 140 |
| Sharon Stone | Actress | USA | 154 |
| Sofia Kovalevskaya | Mathematician & writer | Sweden/Russia | 170 |
| Stephen W. Hawking | Physicist | England | 160 |
| Thomas Chatterton | Poet & writer | England | 180 |
| Thomas Jefferson | President | USA | 138 |
| Thomas Wolsey | Politician | England | 200 |
| Truman Cloak | 165 | ||
| Ulysses S. Grant | President | USA | 110 |
| Voltaire | Writer | France | 190 |
| William James Sidis | USA | 200 | |
| William Pitt (the Younger) | Politician | England | 190 |
| Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart | Composer | Austria | 165 |
Sep 28, 2012
Kamar Mandi
Yo!! W'zuup!
Ada satu kisah saya mo kasi crita ngan kamu ni. It goes something like this.
Last yesterday nite me n my wife lepak-lepaking di rumah and then suddenly dia tanya satu benda (i forgot what it was), then without much thinkin' sa jawab la "Ada tu saya nampak di kamar mandi.." lepas tu punya la dia ketawa, siap dia p mengolok summore, dia bilang mcm bahasa indonesia kunun dalam drama..hahaha!
After that i realise, dia tidak pernah dgr benda tu (coz dia urg SM). Furthermore lama pula saya tidak guna tu word Kamar Mandi and first time dia dgr saya sebut tu benda..ehehe..So, no wonder dia heran.
I dunno if u all pun guna bahasa tu (i mean Sabahan) but in Tawau we normally use that word to differentiate/distinguish between tandas mandi and tandas buang air big/small hehehe. But when tandas mandi n tandas 'offload' merge as one..kami kadang-kadang panggil tandas atau kamar mandi..depends la mana yg menepati citarasa masing-masing..hehe.
Ada satu kisah saya mo kasi crita ngan kamu ni. It goes something like this.
Last yesterday nite me n my wife lepak-lepaking di rumah and then suddenly dia tanya satu benda (i forgot what it was), then without much thinkin' sa jawab la "Ada tu saya nampak di kamar mandi.." lepas tu punya la dia ketawa, siap dia p mengolok summore, dia bilang mcm bahasa indonesia kunun dalam drama..hahaha!
After that i realise, dia tidak pernah dgr benda tu (coz dia urg SM). Furthermore lama pula saya tidak guna tu word Kamar Mandi and first time dia dgr saya sebut tu benda..ehehe..So, no wonder dia heran.
I dunno if u all pun guna bahasa tu (i mean Sabahan) but in Tawau we normally use that word to differentiate/distinguish between tandas mandi and tandas buang air big/small hehehe. But when tandas mandi n tandas 'offload' merge as one..kami kadang-kadang panggil tandas atau kamar mandi..depends la mana yg menepati citarasa masing-masing..hehe.
Jul 10, 2012
Jun 11, 2012
May 18, 2012
Don't Make Things Complicated
Good evening everyone,
Today, my advice to myself is: stop making things complicated. Why? Looking all things happen nowadays makes me realize human tend to make things complicated..Don't you think so?
For instance, some people might say Mother's day is haram for muslim to celebrate? All i'm going to say is..WTFrog is wrong with that? I know maybe for some people Mother's day is a symbolize of Virgin Mary that Roman Catholic strongly associated with or any other religion or culture, but that's not really an issue..the issue is if you makes an issue out of it (berapa byk issue daa). For God's sake, stop making things complicated. Please don't raise useless issue against it..there's nothing wrong to celebrate Mother's day, the important thing is your purpose of doing it.
Think for a second, just like your Birthday, Father's day, Teacher's day and any other days. It's not because you believe in something (superstitious or anything) and you're doing it..but it's more like something that you want to express and appreciate that you makes things count. Yes, i know, i can't make everybody agree with me..neither did i want to make them believe me.
If you say, Mother's day is not appropriate because mother should be celebrate everyday? Well of course that's true, i'm completely agree with you. But now, ask yourself, don't you want to make a Mother's day an official day for the whole world?
Mother's day actually just a reminder for people, well you know what they say about people..sometimes people forget to show an appreciation to their mother..Well, now there's a day reserved solely for you to show your mother how you appreciate and love her..enough say!
Same goes for Yoga, Poco-poco dance, Valentine's day, Bersih rally (eh, i don't now about that..haha) and so on..haram this and not..Once again i'm going to say; stop making things complicated.
Ok that's enough, let's chill out..hehe. Now i'll share with you 28 Ways to Stop complicating your life that i copied from marcandangel.com
Life is not complicated. We are complicated. When we stop doing the wrong things and start doing the right things, life is simple.
So starting today…
1. Stop berating yourself for being a work in progress.
Start embracing it! Because being a work in progress doesn’t mean you’re not good enough today. It means you want a better tomorrow, and you wish to love yourself completely, so you can live your life fully. It means you’re determined to heal your heart, expand your mind and cultivate the gifts you know you’re meant to share. May we all be works in progress forever, and celebrate the fact that we are!
2. Stop doing immoral things simply because you can.
Start being honest with yourself and everyone else. Don’t cheat. Be faithful. Be kind. Do the right thing! It is a less complicated way to live. Integrity is the essence of everything successful. When you break the rules of integrity you invite serious complications into your life. Keep life simple and enjoyable by doing what you know in your heart is right.
3. Stop meaning what you don’t say.
Start communicating clearly. Don’t try to read other people’s minds, and don’t make other people try to read yours. Most problems, big and small, within a family, friendship, or business relationship, start with bad communication. Someone isn’t being clear.
4. Stop wasting time and money trying to acquire more of everything.
Start focusing on quality. High quality is worth more than any quantity, in possessions, friends and experiences. Truly ‘rich’ people need less to be happy. Live a comfortable life, not a wasteful one. Too many people buy things they don’t need with money they don’t have to impress people they don’t know. Do not spend to impress others. Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking wealth is measured in material objects. Manage your money wisely so your money does not manage you.
5. Stop spending time with negative people.
Start spending time with nice people who are smart, driven and like-minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you free yourself of negative people, you free yourself to be YOU – and being YOU is the simplest way to live.
6. Stop trying to change people.
Start accepting people just the way they are. In most cases it’s impossible to change them anyway, and it’s rude to try. So save yourself from needless stress. Instead of trying to change others, give them your support and lead by example.
7. Stop being lazy and cutting corners.
Start avoiding future headaches by doing things right the first time. Always put your best foot forward. Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment. Why give less than 100%? Life is too short to waste it by living below your full potential. If something is worth doing, then it’s worth doing well.
8. Stop procrastinating.
Start taking action and making changes. Action and change are often resisted when they’re needed most. Get a hold of yourself and have discipline. Discipline is choosing what you really want over what you want right now. Putting something off makes it instantly harder and scarier. What we don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow. And there’s nothing more stressful than the perpetual lingering of an unfinished task.
9. Stop worrying and complaining.
Start focusing on the things you can control and do something about them. Those who complain the most accomplish the least. And when you spend time worrying, you’re simply using your imagination to create things you don’t want. It’s usually only as good or bad as you think it is.
10. Stop being dramatic.
Start spending less time gossiping about problems and more time helping yourself and others solve them. Stay out of people’s needless drama and don’t create your own.
11. Stop trying to be everything to everyone.
Start focusing on being everything to someone. Helping or pleasing everyone is impossible. But making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus and be yourself.
12. Stop making promises you can’t keep.
Starting under-promising and over-delivering on everything you do. Period.
13. Stop blaming others. – Start accepting responsibility for everything in your life. Blaming others accomplishes nothing and prolongs the complications you’re facing. Either you own your problems, or they will own you. Your choice. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give up your power over that part of your life.
14. Stop reacting without a plan.
Start planning and working toward specific goals. Make a list of your top 3 - 5 goals. What’s most important to you? What do you value most? What 3 - 5 things do you most want to do in your life? Simplifying your life starts with these priorities, as you are trying to make room in your life so you have more time for these things. Having a plan, even a flawed one at first, is better than no plan at all. There is good reason why you should wake each morning and mindfully consider what and who you will give your day to: Because unlike other things in life – love, money, respect, good health, hope, opportunities, etc. – time is the one thing you can never get back once it’s gone.
15. Stop confusing ‘being busy’ with ‘being productive.’
Start tracking and measuring your progress. Being busy and being productive are two very different things. Results are more important than the time it takes to achieve them.
16. Stop over-committing and trying to do too much at once.
Start saying “no” more often. If you never say “no,” you will take on too much and get nothing accomplished. In the beginning, you need to say “yes” to a lot of things to discover and establish your goals. Later on, you need to say “no” to a lot of things and concentrate on your goals. Once your goals are established, focus on doing one thing at a time and doing it well. Also, leave space around commitments in your day. Whether you have appointments, or things you need to do, don’t stack them back-to-back. Leave a little space between things you need to do, so you will have room for contingencies, and you’ll go through your day much more relaxed.
17. Stop being inefficient simply because you’ve always done it that way.
Start opening your mind to making positive changes. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Many times we live with unplanned, complex systems in our lives simply because we haven’t given them much thought. Instead, streamline your life by finding better ways of handling common tasks. Focus on one system at a time (your cleaning system, your errands system, your paperwork system, your email system, etc.) and try to make it simplified, efficient, and logical. Then, once you have it perfected, stick to it.
18. Stop cluttering your space.
Start clearing clutter. Get rid of stuff you don’t use and then organize what’s left. If you have a cluttered living or working space, it can be distracting and stressful. A clear space is like a blank canvas, available to be used to create something great. Getting truly organized and clutter-free can vastly improve anyone’s life.
19. Stop overloading your mind by consuming useless information.
Start unsubscribing from useless e-lists and news feeds, and keep the TV off. Limit your time on Facebook, Twitter, CNN.com and your other favorite websites, etc.
20. Stop obsessing over the past and future.
Start being present. Paying more attention to the current moment can make a huge difference in simplifying your life. It keeps you aware of life, of what’s going on around you and within you. It does wonders for your sanity and stress levels.
21. Stop waiting for things to be perfect.
Start thinking of how many things don’t get done in this world simply because people are waiting for the perfect time, place and circumstance. If you’re waiting for the perfect conditions, ideas or plans to get started, you’ll never achieve anything. A good idea without action is nothing at all. Keep it simple and just start. Focus on the next positive step forward.
22. Stop focusing so much energy on trying to avoid mistakes.
Start learning from your mistakes, then smile and move on. No matter how smart you are, you will make mistakes. Trying to avoid them will only waste time and complicate your life. There is a lesson in every mistake you make, and learning the lesson is how you move forward.
23. Stop making emotional decisions.
Start taking a few steps back so you can think things through. When you’re caught up in the moment and your emotions are soaring, you’re bound to make poor decisions that will lead to needless complications. The best advice here is simple: Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence. Slow down and think things through before you make any big decisions.
24. Stop being unhealthy.
Start taking care of your body. Start sleeping eight hours every night. A tired, malnourished mind is over-stressed and rarely productive. Your health is your life, don’t let it go. Eat right, exercise and get an annual physical check-up
25. Stop holding on to intimate relationships that make you unhappy.
Start looking out for yourself when it comes to intimate relationships. It’s better to WAIT, and give your hand to someone who will never let go, rather than holding on to the outside of a hand that has never fully opened for you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. Remember, anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you. But it takes someone really special to stay in your life and show you how much they love you. So slow it down. True love is worth the wait.
26. Stop holding on to hate.
Starting letting hate go! Keep your sights set on the future. Holding on to hate and anger is like grasping hot coals with the intent of throwing them at someone else – you are the one who gets burned. If you want to forget someone, and move on, you must give up hating them. It’s hard to forget someone you hate, because hate takes pieces of your heart – thereby keeping this person within your heart. If you want to forget them, let go of the hate, and create peace in your heart instead. Also, remember that whenever you hate something, it usually hates you back: people, situations, and inanimate objects alike; which will only further complicate your life.
27. Stop pretending like you know everything.
Start accepting the fact that there’s a lot you don’t know. Nobody has it all figured out. Nobody knows more than a minuscule fraction of what’s going on in the world. Why? Because the world is simply way too vast for any one person to know everything well. And most of what we see is only what we think about what we see. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you will stop making the same unnecessary mistakes, and the sooner new doors of opportunity will open in your life.
28. Stop giving what you don’t want to receive.
Start practicing the golden rule. If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you want money, provide value. It works. It really is this simple.
Credit to: Marcandangel
Today, my advice to myself is: stop making things complicated. Why? Looking all things happen nowadays makes me realize human tend to make things complicated..Don't you think so?
For instance, some people might say Mother's day is haram for muslim to celebrate? All i'm going to say is..WTFrog is wrong with that? I know maybe for some people Mother's day is a symbolize of Virgin Mary that Roman Catholic strongly associated with or any other religion or culture, but that's not really an issue..the issue is if you makes an issue out of it (berapa byk issue daa). For God's sake, stop making things complicated. Please don't raise useless issue against it..there's nothing wrong to celebrate Mother's day, the important thing is your purpose of doing it.
Think for a second, just like your Birthday, Father's day, Teacher's day and any other days. It's not because you believe in something (superstitious or anything) and you're doing it..but it's more like something that you want to express and appreciate that you makes things count. Yes, i know, i can't make everybody agree with me..neither did i want to make them believe me.
If you say, Mother's day is not appropriate because mother should be celebrate everyday? Well of course that's true, i'm completely agree with you. But now, ask yourself, don't you want to make a Mother's day an official day for the whole world?
Mother's day actually just a reminder for people, well you know what they say about people..sometimes people forget to show an appreciation to their mother..Well, now there's a day reserved solely for you to show your mother how you appreciate and love her..enough say!
Same goes for Yoga, Poco-poco dance, Valentine's day, Bersih rally (eh, i don't now about that..haha) and so on..haram this and not..Once again i'm going to say; stop making things complicated.
Ok that's enough, let's chill out..hehe. Now i'll share with you 28 Ways to Stop complicating your life that i copied from marcandangel.com
Life is not complicated. We are complicated. When we stop doing the wrong things and start doing the right things, life is simple.
So starting today…
1. Stop berating yourself for being a work in progress.
Start embracing it! Because being a work in progress doesn’t mean you’re not good enough today. It means you want a better tomorrow, and you wish to love yourself completely, so you can live your life fully. It means you’re determined to heal your heart, expand your mind and cultivate the gifts you know you’re meant to share. May we all be works in progress forever, and celebrate the fact that we are!
2. Stop doing immoral things simply because you can.
Start being honest with yourself and everyone else. Don’t cheat. Be faithful. Be kind. Do the right thing! It is a less complicated way to live. Integrity is the essence of everything successful. When you break the rules of integrity you invite serious complications into your life. Keep life simple and enjoyable by doing what you know in your heart is right.
3. Stop meaning what you don’t say.
Start communicating clearly. Don’t try to read other people’s minds, and don’t make other people try to read yours. Most problems, big and small, within a family, friendship, or business relationship, start with bad communication. Someone isn’t being clear.
4. Stop wasting time and money trying to acquire more of everything.
Start focusing on quality. High quality is worth more than any quantity, in possessions, friends and experiences. Truly ‘rich’ people need less to be happy. Live a comfortable life, not a wasteful one. Too many people buy things they don’t need with money they don’t have to impress people they don’t know. Do not spend to impress others. Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking wealth is measured in material objects. Manage your money wisely so your money does not manage you.
5. Stop spending time with negative people.
Start spending time with nice people who are smart, driven and like-minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you free yourself of negative people, you free yourself to be YOU – and being YOU is the simplest way to live.
6. Stop trying to change people.
Start accepting people just the way they are. In most cases it’s impossible to change them anyway, and it’s rude to try. So save yourself from needless stress. Instead of trying to change others, give them your support and lead by example.
7. Stop being lazy and cutting corners.
Start avoiding future headaches by doing things right the first time. Always put your best foot forward. Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment. Why give less than 100%? Life is too short to waste it by living below your full potential. If something is worth doing, then it’s worth doing well.
8. Stop procrastinating.
Start taking action and making changes. Action and change are often resisted when they’re needed most. Get a hold of yourself and have discipline. Discipline is choosing what you really want over what you want right now. Putting something off makes it instantly harder and scarier. What we don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow. And there’s nothing more stressful than the perpetual lingering of an unfinished task.
9. Stop worrying and complaining.
Start focusing on the things you can control and do something about them. Those who complain the most accomplish the least. And when you spend time worrying, you’re simply using your imagination to create things you don’t want. It’s usually only as good or bad as you think it is.
10. Stop being dramatic.
Start spending less time gossiping about problems and more time helping yourself and others solve them. Stay out of people’s needless drama and don’t create your own.
11. Stop trying to be everything to everyone.
Start focusing on being everything to someone. Helping or pleasing everyone is impossible. But making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus and be yourself.
12. Stop making promises you can’t keep.
Starting under-promising and over-delivering on everything you do. Period.
13. Stop blaming others. – Start accepting responsibility for everything in your life. Blaming others accomplishes nothing and prolongs the complications you’re facing. Either you own your problems, or they will own you. Your choice. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give up your power over that part of your life.
14. Stop reacting without a plan.
Start planning and working toward specific goals. Make a list of your top 3 - 5 goals. What’s most important to you? What do you value most? What 3 - 5 things do you most want to do in your life? Simplifying your life starts with these priorities, as you are trying to make room in your life so you have more time for these things. Having a plan, even a flawed one at first, is better than no plan at all. There is good reason why you should wake each morning and mindfully consider what and who you will give your day to: Because unlike other things in life – love, money, respect, good health, hope, opportunities, etc. – time is the one thing you can never get back once it’s gone.
15. Stop confusing ‘being busy’ with ‘being productive.’
Start tracking and measuring your progress. Being busy and being productive are two very different things. Results are more important than the time it takes to achieve them.
16. Stop over-committing and trying to do too much at once.
Start saying “no” more often. If you never say “no,” you will take on too much and get nothing accomplished. In the beginning, you need to say “yes” to a lot of things to discover and establish your goals. Later on, you need to say “no” to a lot of things and concentrate on your goals. Once your goals are established, focus on doing one thing at a time and doing it well. Also, leave space around commitments in your day. Whether you have appointments, or things you need to do, don’t stack them back-to-back. Leave a little space between things you need to do, so you will have room for contingencies, and you’ll go through your day much more relaxed.
17. Stop being inefficient simply because you’ve always done it that way.
Start opening your mind to making positive changes. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Many times we live with unplanned, complex systems in our lives simply because we haven’t given them much thought. Instead, streamline your life by finding better ways of handling common tasks. Focus on one system at a time (your cleaning system, your errands system, your paperwork system, your email system, etc.) and try to make it simplified, efficient, and logical. Then, once you have it perfected, stick to it.
18. Stop cluttering your space.
Start clearing clutter. Get rid of stuff you don’t use and then organize what’s left. If you have a cluttered living or working space, it can be distracting and stressful. A clear space is like a blank canvas, available to be used to create something great. Getting truly organized and clutter-free can vastly improve anyone’s life.
19. Stop overloading your mind by consuming useless information.
Start unsubscribing from useless e-lists and news feeds, and keep the TV off. Limit your time on Facebook, Twitter, CNN.com and your other favorite websites, etc.
20. Stop obsessing over the past and future.
Start being present. Paying more attention to the current moment can make a huge difference in simplifying your life. It keeps you aware of life, of what’s going on around you and within you. It does wonders for your sanity and stress levels.
21. Stop waiting for things to be perfect.
Start thinking of how many things don’t get done in this world simply because people are waiting for the perfect time, place and circumstance. If you’re waiting for the perfect conditions, ideas or plans to get started, you’ll never achieve anything. A good idea without action is nothing at all. Keep it simple and just start. Focus on the next positive step forward.
22. Stop focusing so much energy on trying to avoid mistakes.
Start learning from your mistakes, then smile and move on. No matter how smart you are, you will make mistakes. Trying to avoid them will only waste time and complicate your life. There is a lesson in every mistake you make, and learning the lesson is how you move forward.
23. Stop making emotional decisions.
Start taking a few steps back so you can think things through. When you’re caught up in the moment and your emotions are soaring, you’re bound to make poor decisions that will lead to needless complications. The best advice here is simple: Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence. Slow down and think things through before you make any big decisions.
24. Stop being unhealthy.
Start taking care of your body. Start sleeping eight hours every night. A tired, malnourished mind is over-stressed and rarely productive. Your health is your life, don’t let it go. Eat right, exercise and get an annual physical check-up
25. Stop holding on to intimate relationships that make you unhappy.
Start looking out for yourself when it comes to intimate relationships. It’s better to WAIT, and give your hand to someone who will never let go, rather than holding on to the outside of a hand that has never fully opened for you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. Remember, anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you. But it takes someone really special to stay in your life and show you how much they love you. So slow it down. True love is worth the wait.
26. Stop holding on to hate.
Starting letting hate go! Keep your sights set on the future. Holding on to hate and anger is like grasping hot coals with the intent of throwing them at someone else – you are the one who gets burned. If you want to forget someone, and move on, you must give up hating them. It’s hard to forget someone you hate, because hate takes pieces of your heart – thereby keeping this person within your heart. If you want to forget them, let go of the hate, and create peace in your heart instead. Also, remember that whenever you hate something, it usually hates you back: people, situations, and inanimate objects alike; which will only further complicate your life.
27. Stop pretending like you know everything.
Start accepting the fact that there’s a lot you don’t know. Nobody has it all figured out. Nobody knows more than a minuscule fraction of what’s going on in the world. Why? Because the world is simply way too vast for any one person to know everything well. And most of what we see is only what we think about what we see. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you will stop making the same unnecessary mistakes, and the sooner new doors of opportunity will open in your life.
28. Stop giving what you don’t want to receive.
Start practicing the golden rule. If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you want money, provide value. It works. It really is this simple.
Credit to: Marcandangel
Mar 20, 2012
U Don't Say
Hello everybody
Do you know what is meme? Well actually it's a pain in d ass to explain every single things to you, but for the sake of our bloggership (kunun) i am more than willing to explain it to you, haha.
Meme is actually based on rage comics or web comics, rage comics they are special because at their core they consist of well known faces or expressions which are meant to show universal emotions of varying degrees under a wide variety of circumstances.
If you really are a fan of 9GAG or a hardcore FB user, you will not be unfamiliar with these meme@comics, you will also notice lot of people using these meme, as if it's become a trend nowaday. Well, now..there's a ton of meme out there but only a few that really tickles me :D ..such as...
Examples:
About: “You Don’t Say?” is a rage comic face based on Nicholas Cage's face that is used as a sarcastic response to an obvious observation or statement.
Examples:
HAHAHA..:D that's all!
Do you know what is meme? Well actually it's a pain in d ass to explain every single things to you, but for the sake of our bloggership (kunun) i am more than willing to explain it to you, haha.
Meme is actually based on rage comics or web comics, rage comics they are special because at their core they consist of well known faces or expressions which are meant to show universal emotions of varying degrees under a wide variety of circumstances.
If you really are a fan of 9GAG or a hardcore FB user, you will not be unfamiliar with these meme@comics, you will also notice lot of people using these meme, as if it's become a trend nowaday. Well, now..there's a ton of meme out there but only a few that really tickles me :D ..such as...
Homophobic seal
About: Homophobic Seal (also known as “Gay Seal”) is a web comic character that is known for its catchphrase “GAAAAAAYYYY.” It is often added on to the bottom of an image to dismiss everything above as naive, weak or saccharine.
Examples:
You Don't Say
About: “You Don’t Say?” is a rage comic face based on Nicholas Cage's face that is used as a sarcastic response to an obvious observation or statement.
Examples:
HAHAHA..:D that's all!
Mar 3, 2012
Goosebump Music
I always wonder, why we got a goose bump whenever we hear a good songs..so i wiki for it and here is the result ;
The pleasure experience is driven by the chemical dopamine, which has been linked to addiction. It produces physical effects known as "chills" that cause changes in the skin's electrical conductance, heart rate, breathing and temperature. The responses correlate with the degree to which people rate the "pleasurability" of music.
The new research has shown that dopamine release was greatest when listeners had a strong emotional response to music. "If music-induced emotional states can lead to dopamine release, as our findings indicate, it may begin to explain why musical experiences are so valued,” wrote the scientists.
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Music
Canadian researchers have suggested that when we are moved by music our brains behave as if reacting to delicious food, psychoactive drugs, or money. According to Caribbean Sociologist, Corey Alexander Lane, "The reaction from music is based on the memory induced emotion that some songs create."The pleasure experience is driven by the chemical dopamine, which has been linked to addiction. It produces physical effects known as "chills" that cause changes in the skin's electrical conductance, heart rate, breathing and temperature. The responses correlate with the degree to which people rate the "pleasurability" of music.
The new research has shown that dopamine release was greatest when listeners had a strong emotional response to music. "If music-induced emotional states can lead to dopamine release, as our findings indicate, it may begin to explain why musical experiences are so valued,” wrote the scientists.
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Owhhhh..so that's the reason huh?..haha! Well then, now let us enjoy this music video from FT Island - Severely :D
Live performance
And the HD Version;
And here is the full music video with Eng + Hangul + Romanization lyric;
Feb 24, 2012
Picture Friday
Owhh..this is nothing..really..in particular..It's just something that i had in mind (or should i say..my HP) :P
This is Mr.Froggy
Nasib baik ujan sudah berenti..kalau tidak confirm begini la ptg nie
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